You might have heard that too much lube takes away the friction that makes it feel good for the dude. A good way to remedy that is using lots of lube and smarting with smaller objects, rather than big ones. Pain most commonly comes from anal fissures, or little tears in the tissue around the anus, which is very thin and delicate. I know, you really wanna fuck now. We used Vaseline, but my boyfriend later realized that it deadens sensation on the skin, which was obviously helpful for my asshole but bad for his orgasm. The rumors are true: Anal does have the possibility of getting messy.
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Either way is a hundred percent fine, and if he keeps pressuring you when you have made it clear that it is not on the table, tell him to suck it. A good way to remedy that is using lots of lube and smarting with smaller objects, rather than big ones. Injuries from anal sex are possible but super rare. Take any pressure to perform off yourself by trying penetrative anal sex alone first. You are being an awesome and selfless if butt sex is not on your list of must-have sex partner.